| Are you having marriage problems and need to | | | | heartened to know that many who have |
| find a way to stop a divorce from happening? To | | | | experienced their spouse cheating on them will |
| be able to stop a divorce from happening, you | | | | want to try to make their marriage work. But to |
| must be able to do two things: you need to work | | | | do that, I would highly recommend that you go to |
| hard on your marriage and you need to be | | | | a marriage counselor. A marriage counselor will be |
| patient. Making marriage work always takes work | | | | able to help you get through these difficulties and |
| and compromises, but being on the brink of | | | | it could be just the thing that your spouse needs |
| divorce, you will have to be able to work hard on | | | | to hear to stop a divorce from happening, you |
| it and give it time. | | | | willing to work on your marriage by seeing a |
| There can be a lot of reasons why you marriage | | | | counselor. You will need to give your spouse |
| is on verge of a divorce. I could only guess, but | | | | some time to think and heal, as he/she has lost all |
| the most common problems are: lack of | | | | trust in you. Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal in a |
| communication, lack of trust, infidelity or addiction | | | | marriage. |
| problems. There could be number of other | | | | Lastly is the addiction problem. If you've got |
| reasons, but these I find are the most common. | | | | problems with alcohol, substance abuse, gambling |
| It could be that your spouse feels that you don't | | | | problems or any other such addictions, then the |
| listen and that you don't respect his/her feelings, | | | | only thing you can do now is prove to your |
| thoughts or opinions. That is a very common | | | | spouse that you can change. Don't just say it, |
| problem between married couples. If this is the | | | | prove it. The only way to do that is by seeking |
| case, than you need to realize that a change is | | | | help. Go to rehab or to AA meetings or other |
| necessary. When your spouse speaks to you, be | | | | meetings that fit your addiction. If you want to |
| calm. Your spouse has his/her rights to his/her | | | | keep your family, then this is what you need to |
| own opinions and feelings and if you don't agree, | | | | do. It is hard to fight an addiction, but it is doable |
| at least make your spouse know that you | | | | if you get help and stop trying to do it alone. |
| support him/her, even though you feel differently | | | | So, there you have it. If you want to stop a |
| about the subject. Don't yell, shout or scream at | | | | divorce from happening, changes are unavoidable. |
| your spouse. You are supposed to be able to talk | | | | I've only discussed what you can do from your |
| about what you want and about your feelings to | | | | own perspective, but it is usually so that your |
| each other, without feeling afraid that you will be | | | | spouse also needs to change. Sometimes the |
| yelled at. | | | | best way to do that is for you to take the first |
| If the issue is infidelity, then maybe you will be | | | | step and let your spouse catch up to you. |